You don’t have to stay stuck—there is a way forward.
Conflict isn’t just about what’s happening now—it’s often shaped by past experiences and attachment patterns.
This might look like:
Feeling anxious, always waiting for the next argument.
Craving closeness while your partner pulls away—or vice versa.
Feeling invalidated, unheard, or stuck in toxic cycles.
Getting defensive, shutting down, or using ultimatums to be heard.
Being caught in these patterns can leave you feeling hopeless. But with the right tools, you and your partner can break free from these cycles and rebuild connection.
Finding out your partner has been unfaithful can feel like your entire world has shattered.
You might be questioning:
✔ Was anything real?
✔ Can I ever trust them again?
✔ Should I stay or leave?
Betrayal trauma can cause:
✔ Hypervigilance—constantly checking their messages, replaying events in your mind.
✔ Sleep & appetite changes—struggling to eat, waking up in panic.
✔ Emotional overwhelm—rage, grief, numbness, anxiety, all at once.
These reactions are normal. But when you’re in this much pain, it’s hard to know what to do next.
Whether you’re struggling with constant conflict, feeling emotionally distant, or facing the pain of betrayal, you don’t have to figure this out alone.
I won’t tell you whether to stay or leave. But I will help you make sense of what’s happening, heal from the pain, and make the best decision for you.
As a counsellor and relationship coach, I provide a warm, non-judgmental space to explore the deeper emotional dynamics within your relationship.
I integrate proven therapeutic techniques, including:
✔ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help you understand your emotional patterns.
✔ Attachment-based counselling to address past wounds affecting your connection.
✔ Holistic & personalised support tailored to your unique needs and goals.
💡 I won’t tell you whether to stay or leave—but I will help you find clarity, healing, and the confidence to make the best choice for you. More about me.
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I acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of the land on which I live and work, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. I pay my respects to their Elders past, present, and emerging, and recognise their continuing connection to land, waters, and culture.
At Wellness Valeria, I am committed to fostering a space of inclusivity, respect, and healing for all communities.